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Albert Shin GaoJanuary 22 假期小结这次回上海好象过得非常平淡但不时地出现精彩的瞬间. 我见到了我想见的人甚至看到了我一直回避的人, 多数人生轨迹都在毕业后都各走各的路, 能在一起的自然就成了铁哥们,男女朋友或者夫妻, 不能在一起的变是普通朋友.
闲谈过去的日子是美好的,不过, 那时思想是单纯的眼光是短的, 同性朋友间常常谈论兴趣, 异性的生理变化; 在当时所谓的男女朋友,他们认为爱情就是这样的简单.
现在我们都到了谈论婚事的年龄. 朋友会给你介绍你的另一半, 长辈会给你介绍你的另一半, 自己也会去找你的另一半, 彼此相信缘分是对的人最终走到了一起. 顺便说一句, 这次回来学会了个新单词: SERENDIPITY 意思是命中注定.
我当然不会让朋友或者长辈给找对象,就现实来说是不太可能的. 我已经找到了喜欢的女人s, 加了s表示是2个或者是2个以上. 她们在我心中并不是平等的, 一个我喜欢了快10年如果算上2009,但我们一直离的很远; 一个我喜欢了2年,不过早已劳燕分飞; 一个我才爱上了她但还没有表示,喜欢她因为我们天天见面 相互帮助. 老外也有UP TO FATE 一说, 来寻找他们的另一半. 难道真的老天都已经安排好了我们配对, 这种研究难道真的无从下手吗?
几乎所有的聚会都在谈论这类事情, 男人之间的想法,我想,应该和女人的想法是不一样的. 男人喜欢展示未来的东西, 女人爱看中现实的生活, 当然也一定不是这样的. 处在热恋中的男女会热的冲昏头脑, 如果谁能先清醒地分析现实,那是非常可贵.
最后,祝要结婚的哥们, 幸福!
写于去荷兰的路上
June 15 The Lisbon dead?The Lisbon treaty was delayed for the public vote in Ireland. About 46% Irish voted Yes for the new policy but more than 50% did not let it pass. So the minority island was suddenly atractive lots of foucs from the European Union.
I thought that Lisbon treaty would be good for E.U. to make a more important role in the international affairs and a big competition with U.S.A and far easten ansian. But anyway, different people have different ideas for different things. We can not control the 'wind' but the 'sail'.
As fas as I know, Ireland has achieved amazing economic miracle for 20 years in that she has been the member of E.U.. But now, most of Irish do not hope the new policy to be effective in E.U. because the new policy allow new imigration from the new E.U. countries to take their fancy jobs. I guess that they may be selflish?
One of Germany parlimentarian said he did not care about the vote result in Ireland, the inovation of E.U. can not be delayed for a small amount of people!
If you are interested in this news, you can check the webpage in 'Irish Times'.
Xin in Cork
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